June 19, 2016

The Space Between Us

The Space Between Us by Thrity Umrigar
2006 William Morrow
Finished on February 13, 2016
Rating: 4.5/5 (Terrific!)

Publisher's Blurb:

Devastating in its power, remarkable in its achievement, The Space Between Us is a searing, addictively readable novel that vividly captures the delicate balance of class and gender in contemporary India--witnessed through the lives of two compelling women.

They are sitting in the dining room, sipping tea, Sera out of the blue-gray mug Dinaz had bought for her from Cottage Industries, Bhima out of the stainless-steel glass that is kept aside for her in the Dubash household. As usual, Sera sits on a chair at the table while Bhima squats on her haunches on the floor nearby. When Dinaz was younger, she used to prod her mother about the injustice of Bhima not being allowed to sit on the couch or a chair and having to use her own separate utensils instead of the ones the rest of the family used.

"Now, Dinaz," Sera would say mildly. "I think there's a slight difference between burning a Harijan and not allowing Bhima to use our glasses. Do you want her lips to touch our glasses?"

Now, watching Bhima sip at her tea, Sera shifts uncomfortably in her chair. Since Feroz's death, she has occasionally toyed with the idea of asking Bhima to join her at the table. Sure, some of her friends would be scandalized at first, and the next time a servant in the building asked her mistress for a raise, the woman would automatically blame Sera Dubash for setting a bad example. But what difference did it make to her what the neighbors said?

And yet... The thought of Bhima sitting on her furniture repulses her. There is this reluctance, this resistance to let Bhima use the furniture. As they sit in companionable silence sipping their tea, Sera tries to justify her prejudice.

I had the ARC of The Space Between Us for over a decade before I finally decided it was time to give it a try. I'm so glad one of my friends kept encouraging me to read this book. It was outstanding! The details of Umrigar's story create a strong sense of place and I had no problem envisioning Sera and Bhima's lives in Bombay. It's been years since I read Rohinton Mistry's excellent novel, A Fine Balance, but as soon as I began reading The Space Between Us, I had the same reaction and fell deep into the world of India.
In the old days, at least the women were spared the elbowing and jostling that occurred each time a bus appeared like a mythical beast at the stop. But in today's Bombay, it was everybody for himself, and the frail, the weak, the young, and the old entered the overflowing buses at their own peril. Bhima felt as if she barely recognized the city anymore--something snarling and mean and cruel had been unleashed in it. Bhima could see the signs of this new meanness everywhere: slum children tied firecrackers to the tails of the stray dogs and then laughed and clapped with glee as the poor animals ran around in circles, going mad with fear. Affluent college students went berserk if a five-year-old beggar child smudged the windows of their gleaming BMWs and Hondas. Every day Serabai would read the newspaper and tell Bhima about some latest horror--a union organizer being bludgeoned to death for daring to urge factory workers to agitate for a two-rupee wage raise; a politician's son being found not guilty after running over three slum children on his way to a party; an elderly Parsi couple being murdered in their beds by a servant who had worked for them for forty years; young Hindu nationalists writing congratulatory notes in their own blood to celebrate India's successful test of a nuclear weapon. It was as if the city was mad with greed and hunger; power and impotence; wealth and poverty.

I love this passage about the ocean:
And now she finally understands what she has always observed on people's faces when they are at the seaside. Years ago, when she and Gopal used to come to here, she would notice how people's faces turned slightly upward when they stared at the sea, as if they were straining to see a trace of God or were hearing the silent humming of the universe; she would notice how, at the beach, people's faces became soft and wistful, reminding her of the expressions on the faces of the sweet old dogs that roamed the streets of Bombay. As if they were all sniffing the salty air for transcendence, for something that would allow them to escape the familiar prisons of their own skin. In the temples and the shrines, their heads were bowed and their faces small, fearful, and respectful, shrunk into insignificance by the ritualized chanting of the priests. But when they gazed at the sea, people held their heads up, and their faces became curious and open, as if they were searching for something that linked them to the sun and the stars, looking for that something they knew would linger long after the wind had erased their footprints in the dust. Land could be bought, sold, owned, divided, claimed, trampled, and fought over. The land was stained permanently with pools of blood; it bulged and swelled under the outlines of the countless millions buried under it. But the sea was unspoiled and eternal and seemingly beyond human claim. Its waters rose and swallowed up the scarlet shame of spilled blood.

Final Thoughts:

This was an excellent read! I didn't want it to end and found myself slowing down as the ending drew closer. This certainly isn't a mystery, but at one point near the end of the book, I was dumbstruck after a detail was revealed. "Wow! I never saw that coming," I thought.

Umrigar is a great storyteller and I look forward to reading more of her novels. As luck would have it, I own a copy of The World We Found, which was published in 2012 and sounds quite enticing!


  1. I can see by the passage you left us on the sea what a fine writer this is! I bought The Space Between Us when Nook was offering it for around one dollar last winter, and I'm so glad to know you liked it so much. I also have A Fine Balance which my mother loved as well. Reading about India has a more special place in my life due to all the lovely, lovely Indian children I teach. I'd say at least a third of my class are Indian, and they've taught me so much! I even like Indian food now, especially the samosas and biryiani. Have you read A Suitable Boy? It's a chinkster, but another fabulous book about India and the people, beautifully plotted and fascinating. Also, I love the nonfiction Coty of Joy from the dark ages of my high school days.

    1. Meredith, she is really a fine writer and I find myself seeking out more literary works like this one. There's a time for fluff, but I'm quickly bored with beach reads right now. You'd think it'd be the opposite now that summer is here! I hope you get a chance to read both this book and A Fine Balance. They are both so well-written and thought-provoking. I have not yet read A Suitable Boy (it IS a huge book, isn't it?!), but I may have to since you recommend it. :) Right now I'm reading about Montana, which is worlds away from India. Next up is Paris! I found an ARC of The Light of Paris, so I may wind up reading that first for Paris in July.

  2. I loved Umrigar's writing and characters in The Story Hour when I read it in January, and then planned to read The Space Between Us over the winter in FL. Unfortunately, I got distracted by library books and failed to bring my book back home again. Now I'll have to wait until winter again. Great review and quotes, Les!

    P.S. I also loved both A Fine Balance and A Suitable Boy.

    1. JoAnn, I remember how much you enjoyed The Story Hour and I'm looking forward to reading it in the next year or so. I don't dare say months since I'm focusing on my current stacks this entire year.

      Ah, another recommendation for A Suitable Boy. :)

  3. I LOVED this one. I wish she would write a new book every year like some authors.

    1. Diane, wasn't it wonderful?! I'm eager to try more of her books and it's nice to know she has several others from which to choose.

      Hope you're enjoying your summer. I'm home with the beginnings of a cold. :( Hoping to beat it down with Zicam before it gets too awful!

  4. One of my all-time favorite books. Such an eye opener for me and the writing is just amazing. I'd love to reread it sometime.

    1. Lisa, wasn't it a wonderful book?! I thought the writing was terrific, too. I look forward to reading more by this author, as well as reading this one a second time.

      Hope you aren't sweltering too much this past week. Nice that it's a little cooler today, although I wish we'd get some rain.

  5. I'm reading The Secrets Between Us, which continues Bhima's story, and so far it's everything I hoped it would be. You'll definitely need to read it!

    1. Nancy, I'm really eager to get my hands on The Secrets Between Us. I need to do so before I forget what happened in The Space Between Us.


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