April 21, 2025

We Spread

 


We Spread by Iain Reid
Fiction
2022
Finished on April 7, 2025
Rating: 4.5/5 (Very Good)

Publisher's Blurb:

Penny, an artist, has lived in the same apartment for decades, surrounded by the artifacts and keepsakes of her long life. She is resigned to the mundane rituals of old age, until things start to slip. Before her longtime partner passed away years earlier, provisions were made, unbeknownst to her, for a room in a unique long-term care residence, where Penny finds herself after one too many “incidents.”

Initially, surrounded by peers, conversing, eating, sleeping, looking out at the beautiful woods that surround the house, all is well. She even begins to paint again. But as the days start to blur together, Penny—with a growing sense of unrest and distrust—starts to lose her grip on the passage of time and on her place in the world. Is she succumbing to the subtly destructive effects of aging, or is she an unknowing participant in something more unsettling?

At once compassionate and uncanny, told in spare, hypnotic prose, Iain Reid’s genre-defying third novel explores questions of conformity, art, productivity, relationships, and what, ultimately, it means to grow old.

We Spread is not a slim novel, but with fewer than 300 pages, and a spare structure of one to two lines of dialogue, this novel is a very quick read. I finished it in less than a day.

If asked to classify the novel, I'm stumped. Is it fiction? Horror? Science fiction? A thriller or psychological suspense? It could be any or all of these (although horror seems to be a stretch). Told from Penny's point of view, I questioned her reliability. Does she have issues with her memory? Are some of the supporting characters imagined? I finished the book with unanswered questions and would love to discuss the novel with others. 

Iain Reid is a new-to-me author, and his storytelling is marvelous. The propulsive short sentences create a page-turner that I gulped down. We Spread will appeal to those who enjoyed Still Alice and Turn of Mind. Now to read Foe and I'm Thinking About Ending Things.

Highly recommend!

April 18, 2025

Looking Back - The House of Gentle Men

Looking Back... In an effort to transfer my book journal entries over to this blog, I'm going to attempt to post (in chronological order) an entry every Friday. I may or may not add extra commentary to what I jotted down in these journals.



The House of Gentle Men by Kathy Hepinstall
Fiction
1999
Finished on April 14, 2002
Rating: 3.5/5 (Good)

Publisher's Blurb:

In a year of war, sixteen-year-old Charlotte sets off on a mission of love in the backwoods of Louisiana, only to be violated by three soldiers in a lonely section of the forest. Charlotte's young life is destroyed, but another life is growing inside her. Years later, in peacetime, Charlotte comes to House of Gentle Men, a mysterious sanctuary where sad, damaged women are administered to by haunted men wishing to atone for their past crimes. Here, Charolotte falls in love with one of the Gentle Men, a tormented young soldier with a terrible secret of his own. An artistic triumph of the highest order, this debut is a transcendent tale of salvation that celebrates the strength of the heart.

My Original Thoughts (2002):

Read with On the Porch Swing online book group. Reminiscent of Alice Hoffman and Laura Esquivel - mystical tone. Set in Louisiana in 1941. It took me quite a while to get interested in this book. I might have given up if it weren't a group read. A couple of surprises, but an abrupt ending that was disappointing. 

My Current Thoughts:

No recollection of this novel. Just adding it to my list of books read in 2002.

April 16, 2025

Three Days in June

 


Three Days in June by Anne Tyler
Fiction
2025
Finished on April 6, 2025
Rating: 4.5/5 (Very Good)

Publisher's Blurb:

A warm, witty, and wise instant classic about second chances.

Gail Baines is having a bad day. To start, she loses her job—or quits, depending on whom you ask. Tomorrow her daughter, Debbie, is getting married, and she hasn’t even been invited to the spa day organized by the mother of the groom. Then, Gail’s ex-husband, Max, arrives unannounced on her doorstep. He has no place to stay, no suit for the wedding. Instead he has a cat (never mind that the groom is deathly allergic).

But the true crisis lands when Debbie shares with her parents a secret she has just learned about her own relationship. It will not only throw the wedding into question but also stir up Gail and Max’s past.

Told with deep sensitivity and a tart sense of humor, Three Days in June is a triumphant novel full of the joys and heartbreaks of love and marriage.

Judging by my ratings for previously read works of Anne Tyler's, it's obvious that her books have been hit-or-miss with me. Some I've loved, but there are just as many that I didn't care for very well. When I first read about her new release, my curiosity was piqued simply by looking at the lovely cover art. Had I spotted the book in a store, I'm certain I would have bought it without bothering to read the description or the blurbs on the back cover. There's also something appealing about a slim novel, and Three Days in June is 165 pages in length (although, I'm a stickler for detail and I would say it's 163 pages as the first paragraph begins on page 3, not that anyone asked me.) After reading JoAnn's review followed by Tina's Goodreads update ("Great beginning, I'm hooked!"), I decided to accept Tina's generous offer to send me the book. I'm so glad I did. I loved it! 

Three Days in June turned out to be the perfect book to read on a rainy day while cooped up in our RV. I laughed out loud, exclaiming on several occasions to my husband (who is always so patient with me when I interrupt whatever he's doing to share a humorous line or two) that I was enjoying the book and was grateful for such a relaxing day. 

Gail Baines is somewhat insecure, and yet she reminded me of Olive Kitteridge with her no-filter, tell-it-like-it-is personality.
I wondered why it was that I had so many irritating people in my life.

and

Sometimes when I find out what's on other people's minds I honestly wonder if we all live on totally separate planets. 

and

Someday I’d like to be given credit for all the times I have not said something that I could have said.

Three Days in June is a character-driven novel, which may not appeal to those who require more action. Tyler's trademark examination of family relationships, coupled with entertaining dialogue, make this story sing. It's a keeper and one that I plan to read again! Highly recommend. 



April 13, 2025

The Hand That First Held Mine

 


The Hand That First Held Mine by Maggie O'Farrell
Fiction
2010
Finished on April 4, 2025
Rating: 3.5/5

Publisher's Blurb:

From the best-selling author of Hamnet and The Marriage Portrait comes a spellbinding novel of two women connected across fifty years by art, love, betrayals, secrets, and motherhood.

Lexie Sinclair is plotting an extraordinary life for herself. Hedged in by her parents' genteel country life, she plans her escape to London. There, she takes up with Innes Kent, a magazine editor who introduces her to the thrilling, underground world of bohemian, post-war Soho. She learns to be a reporter, to know art and artists, to embrace her life fully and with a deep love at the center of it. And when she finds herself pregnant, she doesn't hesitate to have the baby on her own.

Later, in present-day London, a young painter named Elina dizzily navigates the first weeks of motherhood. She finds herself walking outside with no shoes; she goes to the restaurant for lunch at nine in the morning; she can't recall the small matter of giving birth. But for her boyfriend, Ted, fatherhood is calling up lost memories, with images he cannot place. As Ted's memories become more disconcerting and more frequent, it seems that something might connect these two stories—these two women—something that becomes all the more heartbreaking and beautiful as they all hurtle toward its revelation.

I have now read five novels by Maggie O'Farrell, with four remaining (plus her memoir) to read over the course of the year. The Hand That First Held Mine is similar in style to her earlier stories (yet significantly different from Hamnet), and it took me a great deal of time before I came to care about any of the characters and their situations as new parents. Elina and Ted both suffer from strange cases of, for lack of a better term, amnesia. Elina has no recollection of giving birth to her son, and Ted has no memory of his childhood. As the novel progresses, I began to understand the reasons for these lapses in memory, as well as the connection between the two narrative threads, which do eventually coalesce. I was frustrated with this story, and might have given up at the halfway mark had I not decided to read all of O'Farrell's books this year. I'm glad I continued, but it's not one that I'd read again.

In viscerally poetic prose, O'Farrell captures 'the utter loneliness' of motherhood and 'the constant undertow of maternal anxiety.' ~ Washington Post

April 12, 2025

Book Events!

Quick announcement! Rod has two book events next week. If you happen to be in the area, stop by and say hello. We'd love to see/meet you!

Sisters, Oregon

Bend, Oregon

April 11, 2025

Looking Back - The Dive From Clausen's Pier

 Looking Back... In an effort to transfer my book journal entries over to this blog, I'm going to attempt to post (in chronological order) an entry every Friday. I may or may not add extra commentary to what I jotted down in these journals.



The Dive From Clausen's Pier by Ann Packer
Fiction
2002
Finished on April 10, 2002
Rating: 4.5/5 (Very Good)

Publisher's Blurb: 

A suspenseful, richly layered first novel that asks: How much do we owe the people we love?

The Dive From Clausen's Pier will speak to all those who have ever thought about leaving when they knew they should stay, anyone who has ever felt trapped, not only by circumstance, but by the strength of their own love. Carrie Bell has lived in Wisconsin all her life. She's had the same best friend, the same good relationship with her mother, the same boyfriend, for as long as anyone can remember. But when her fiance, Mike is paralyzed by a tragic accident, Carrie has to question everything she thought she knew about herself and about the meaning of home.

Ann Packer has written a morally complex, deeply satisfying novel about the desire to live fully and the conflict between who we want to be to others and who we must be for ourselves. A magnificent debut from a remarkable new talent.

My Original Thoughts (2002):

Terrific! Couldn't put it down. Felt like I was watching a train wreck, though. Sad and depressing, but I couldn't stop reading. Very engrossing. Excellent dialogue. Complex story of friendship, loyalty, and love. Look forward to future releases by Packer.

My Current Thoughts:

I remember how much I enjoyed this thought-provoking novel. I've only read one other book by Packer (The Children's Crusade), and I thought it was also very good. It seems that both novels were depressing in nature, but I liked both of them well enough to give them high ratings.

April 8, 2025

The Pandemic: Five Years Later


It's been five years since the beginning of the pandemic, and I thought I'd write about that first year, reflecting on how quickly life changed for the entire world. 

I drafted a blog post in March 2021, but never got around to publishing it. I'm incorporating that post with some current thoughts, as well as photos from that first year.

On March 13, 2020 we entered a state mandated lockdown in Oregon. In conversations with my family and friends, we all agreed that it would probably only last until summer, and maybe even into the fall, but I don't think any of us had any idea we'd still be there a year later. Of course, we weren't "locked down" for the entire year, but our lives aren't that much different than they were last spring. We are still wearing masks and washing our hands and observing social distancing guidelines. But I now go to the grocery store once a week instead of every two weeks. We get together with friends, but only outside and masked, of course. We haven't had any visitors and haven't seen any family since September 2019, when we were all together for our daughter's wedding. 





We watched a lot of TV, streaming all sorts of British detective series, as well as regular movies. There was always a jigsaw puzzle in progress at the end of our dining room table and it looks like we completed a total of 23 (!!) during the past year. We played Quirkle, Quiddler and Trivial Pursuit, as well as a few other new games. I continued to read and blog, which helped keep me sane.





I discovered dozens of delicious new recipes (our favorite might be the fruit galette), baked bread (when I could find yeast*) and experimented with a sous vide. 


No longer able to work out at our gym, a Peloton bike (and on-demand classes) saved me from the dreaded COVID 15.


*We already knew TP and sanitizer would be scarce, but flour and yeast?



And we Zoomed. A lot. Zoom kept us in touch with our family and friends. I'm grateful that I don't have to use it on a daily basis, but I'm glad we were able to see the faces of those we love and miss. My book group meetings were also on Zoom, which was a bit weird at first, but we were so desperate for those interactions and made it work.


We have remained safe and virus-free. My mom has now had both of her vaccinations and my husband and I have just had our first jabs. So by the end of April, we should be able to resume life relatively close to what we once knew. We are already beginning to sigh with relief, but that doesn't mean we're going to be careless. We will still wear our masks while out in public and keep a bottle of sanitizer in the car. I'm not sure when we'll feel safe enough to go out to eat.

And of course now, five years after the onset of the pandemic, we've had numerous boosters and feel pretty confident that the danger is behind us. Surprisingly, neither my mom (who turns 92 this year), my husband, nor I have ever had Covid. It seems like everyone we know has had it at least once, but we've never caught it. 


We started getting together outdoors within our small "pods," while maintaining safe distances and using hand sanitizer. My Mah Jong pals and I even started to play again, wearing masks and either sitting outside on a patio or in a warm garage with all the doors wide open. 




It was cold in that garage!!


Rod and his friends got together to play music in our garage and driveway. 




Covid testing sites began to pop up in our county, which has less than 50,000 residents. You had to have a doctor's order to be tested there.



Our little town of Depoe Bay looked like a ghost town! 


Watched the strange Opening Day Dodger game with the stands filled with cardboard cutouts. So bizarre. 

From my blog post of March 2020:

I am fortunate to live in a beautiful community and am able to get outside and walk along the ocean and in the forest, listening to podcasts and audiobooks, all of which provides me with much needed distraction from the news and updates. We cancelled our upcoming 2-month road trip (we were to leave yesterday) for obvious reasons.




We did eventually get to take a trip up the coast to one of our favorite campgrounds (Nehalem Bay State Park) and camped for 11 days! It was our first outing since the previous year, so we were very happy to get away. We had the campground pretty much to ourselves, with the exception of the first weekend. Even then, it was maybe only 10% full.
 
More from my 2021 notes:

Our county has moved into a low risk category and yet we are still not comfortable with going out to eat unless there is an outdoor option. 

Looking forward to going out to eat with friends. Traveling and visiting family and friends. 

A year ago, the U.S. had confirmed 1,000 coronavirus infections. Now, we’re approaching 30 million. We couldn't fathom losing 100,000, but we did. Today, more than 530,000 Americans have died from the virus. [As of March 2025, Wikipedia states that there are 1,219,038 confirmed deaths from Covid in the U.S.]

I don't think anyone will ever forget this time in our lives. 

We are retired and our lives didn't change as drastically as those who have jobs or have children in school.

Notes From My Journal:

January 20 - First case of COVID in U.S. (Washington state).
February 29 - First COVID death in U.S. 
March 11 - Costco was a zoo! No toilet paper or Kleenex. People are panic-buying because of COVID.
March 12 - Grocery store has empty shelves. Stock market dropped 7000 points since January. We lost $20K in February.
March 14 - Trying not to spend too much time online reading about COVID. This is such a surreal time. Schools are closed. March Madness and NBA cancelled. Libraries closed. Churches closed. Disneyland closed! Broadway went dark. Long lines at grocery stores. I cancelled all of our reservations for our camping trip. :(
March 16 - Lots of emails flying around about whether to cancel book club and Rae's going away brunch. Shay wants to come out this summer, but who knows if that's even possible.
March 18 - Rec Center officially closed.
March 19 - Day 1 COVID "Stay at Home." COVID testing tent set up at Samaritan clinic.
March 20 - IRS moves filing date to July 15th. CA statewide "stay at home" order. "Shelter in place" COVID deaths surpasses 10,000 globally. Our stocks our down $77K. Went shopping with Rod. Bought almost $350 in groceries. Should be stocked up for a month. 
March 22 - Socially distanced drinks on the deck with Molly & Dave. 
March 23 - Family game night with Rod and Mom (Quiddler). Rod has a cough... trying not to worry!
March 24 - Text from CJ - coworker has COVID. First case in Lincoln county.
March 30 - John Prine has COVID - critical condition.
April 7 - John Prine died.
April 8 - Depoe Bay looks like a ghost town. No cars parked anywhere!
April 11 - Feeling out of sorts. Anxious. Lonely. Missing my girlfriends. Want to go camping!
April 15 - Really miss having a normal routine. No yoga, no pickleball, no Mah Jong, no book club to fill the days. 
Wimbledon cancelled.
Boston Marathon cancelled. First time in its history.
May 19 - Trader Joe's and Costco. Masks required for entry. 
May 25 - Unrest in Minneapolis after George Floyd was killed by police officer kneeling on his neck for 9 minutes. 
May 27 - 100,000 deaths in the United States!
NYC Marathon cancelled. 
July 23 - Opening Day (baseball). No fans in the stadium, just cardboard cut-outs with photos!
Got my first haircut after an entire year - 6" cut off!

This is all I have in my notes. I may add more as my Facebook memories pop up, but that's it for now.

May we never had to endure such a terrible health scare again. Science matters!

April 4, 2025

Looking Back - Mrs. Dalloway

Looking Back... In an effort to transfer my book journal entries over to this blog, I'm going to attempt to post (in chronological order) an entry every Friday. I may or may not add extra commentary to what I jotted down in these journals.


Mrs. Dalloway by Virginia Woolf
Fiction
1925
Finished on April 1, 2002
Rating: 2/5 (Fair)

Publisher's Blurb:

Heralded as Virginia Woolf's greatest novel, this is a vivid portrait of a single day in a woman's life. When we meet her, Mrs. Clarissa Dalloway is preoccupied with the last-minute details of party preparation while in her mind she is something much more than a perfect society hostess. As she readies her house, she is flooded with remembrances of faraway times. And, met with the realities of the present, Clarissa reexamines the choices that brought her there, hesitantly looking ahead to the unfamiliar work of growing old.

My Original Thoughts (2002):

My first time reading something by Virginia Woolf. It took me some time to get used to her style (stream of consciousness), but once I did, I got caught up in the narrative (surprisingly!). There were several slow spots, but overall it wasn't terrible. I'd like to see a film version of the story, and am even a little bit interested in reading something else by Woolf. OK, but don't recommend.

My Current Thoughts:

My rating and my journal notes don't seem to mesh. Today, I'd probably give the book 3/5 stars. I remember, though, how frustrating it was to read this novel. I might have enjoyed it more had I read it after reading Michael Cunningham's book, The Hours.