Showing posts with label covid-19. Show all posts
Showing posts with label covid-19. Show all posts

January 31, 2026

Pete and Alice in Maine

 


Pete and Alice in Maine by Caitlin Shetterly
Fiction
2023
Finished on January 23, 2026
Rating: 4.5/5 (Excellent)

Publisher's Blurb:

Reeling from a painful betrayal in her marriage as the COVID-19 pandemic takes hold in New York City, Alice packs up her family and flees to their vacation home in Maine. She hopes to find sanctuary--from the uncertainties of the exploding pandemic and her faltering marriage.

Putting distance between herself and the stresses and troubles of the city, Alice begins to feel safe and relieved. But the locals are far from friendly. Trapped and forced into quarantine by hostile neighbors, Alice sees the imprisoning structure of her life in this new predicament. Stripped down to the bare essentials of survival and tending to the needs of her two children, she can no longer ignore all the ways in which she feels limited and lost--lost in the big city, lost as a wife, lost as a mother, lost as a daughter, and lost as a person. 

As the world shifts around her and the balance in her marriage tilts, Alice and her husband, Pete, are left to consider whether what keeps their family safe is the same thing as what keeps their family together.

Had I stumbled upon this novel in a bookstore, I would have bought it simply for the beautiful cover art. But I had been seeking out a copy at every independent bookstore we visited last year, finally finding a copy at Winter River Books in Bandon, Oregon. After reading a friend's glowing review of Shetterly's debut novel, I was eager to read it, and now I'm happy to own a copy since it will be one to read again.

I love a novel that pulls me in from the opening lines, keeping me reading late at night, inhaling it in two short days. I also don't mind reading about Covid and the lockdown, which in some ways reminds me that we can do hard things. I've read a few novels that are centered around the pandemic (Wish You Were Here by Jodi Picoult, Tom Lake by Ann Patchett, and most recently Lucy by the Sea by Elizabeth Strout), and Shetterly's didn't disappoint. Her writing is reminiscent of Catherine Newman's (We All Want Impossible Things, Sandwich, and Wreck), and the minute I finished this book, I searched the Internet to see if she had more to offer. I was happy to see that she has a follow-up, The Gulf of Lions, which is due out in May. 


My only quibble about the novel has to do more with the characters than the writing. The eldest daughter's attitude and mouthy attacks on her little sister and her mother made me want to shake her. Alice's husband is no prince, either. And yet I loved this compelling book about marriage and parenthood, warts and all.

I thought this was a lovely passage:
Anyway, the peonies, yes. There's that Jane Kenyon poem where she calls them "outrageous flowers." This year, seeing them in bloom in Maine for the first time, my first June here, and taking the time to really watch them go from those tight little balls to these luxurious Victorian pom-poms, I have seen what she meant. And then, as if they know how overly--no, outrageously--blessed they are with good fortune, rather than hold their heads high with pride, they droop like little supplicants, heads down, apologizing. 
Highly recommend!

April 8, 2025

The Pandemic: Five Years Later


It's been five years since the beginning of the pandemic, and I thought I'd write about that first year, reflecting on how quickly life changed for the entire world. 

I drafted a blog post in March 2021, but never got around to publishing it. I'm incorporating that post with some current thoughts, as well as photos from that first year.

On March 13, 2020 we entered a state mandated lockdown in Oregon. In conversations with my family and friends, we all agreed that it would probably only last until summer, and maybe even into the fall, but I don't think any of us had any idea we'd still be there a year later. Of course, we weren't "locked down" for the entire year, but our lives aren't that much different than they were last spring. We are still wearing masks and washing our hands and observing social distancing guidelines. But I now go to the grocery store once a week instead of every two weeks. We get together with friends, but only outside and masked, of course. We haven't had any visitors and haven't seen any family since September 2019, when we were all together for our daughter's wedding. 





We watched a lot of TV, streaming all sorts of British detective series, as well as regular movies. There was always a jigsaw puzzle in progress at the end of our dining room table and it looks like we completed a total of 23 (!!) during the past year. We played Quirkle, Quiddler and Trivial Pursuit, as well as a few other new games. I continued to read and blog, which helped keep me sane.





I discovered dozens of delicious new recipes (our favorite might be the fruit galette), baked bread (when I could find yeast*) and experimented with a sous vide. 


No longer able to work out at our gym, a Peloton bike (and on-demand classes) saved me from the dreaded COVID 15.


*We already knew TP and sanitizer would be scarce, but flour and yeast?



And we Zoomed. A lot. Zoom kept us in touch with our family and friends. I'm grateful that I don't have to use it on a daily basis, but I'm glad we were able to see the faces of those we love and miss. My book group meetings were also on Zoom, which was a bit weird at first, but we were so desperate for those interactions and made it work.


We have remained safe and virus-free. My mom has now had both of her vaccinations and my husband and I have just had our first jabs. So by the end of April, we should be able to resume life relatively close to what we once knew. We are already beginning to sigh with relief, but that doesn't mean we're going to be careless. We will still wear our masks while out in public and keep a bottle of sanitizer in the car. I'm not sure when we'll feel safe enough to go out to eat.

And of course now, five years after the onset of the pandemic, we've had numerous boosters and feel pretty confident that the danger is behind us. Surprisingly, neither my mom (who turns 92 this year), my husband, nor I have ever had Covid. It seems like everyone we know has had it at least once, but we've never caught it. 


We started getting together outdoors within our small "pods," while maintaining safe distances and using hand sanitizer. My Mah Jong pals and I even started to play again, wearing masks and either sitting outside on a patio or in a warm garage with all the doors wide open. 




It was cold in that garage!!


Rod and his friends got together to play music in our garage and driveway. 




Covid testing sites began to pop up in our county, which has less than 50,000 residents. You had to have a doctor's order to be tested there.



Our little town of Depoe Bay looked like a ghost town! 


Watched the strange Opening Day Dodger game with the stands filled with cardboard cutouts. So bizarre. 

From my blog post of March 2020:

I am fortunate to live in a beautiful community and am able to get outside and walk along the ocean and in the forest, listening to podcasts and audiobooks, all of which provides me with much needed distraction from the news and updates. We cancelled our upcoming 2-month road trip (we were to leave yesterday) for obvious reasons.




We did eventually get to take a trip up the coast to one of our favorite campgrounds (Nehalem Bay State Park) and camped for 11 days! It was our first outing since the previous year, so we were very happy to get away. We had the campground pretty much to ourselves, with the exception of the first weekend. Even then, it was maybe only 10% full.
 
More from my 2021 notes:

Our county has moved into a low risk category and yet we are still not comfortable with going out to eat unless there is an outdoor option. 

Looking forward to going out to eat with friends. Traveling and visiting family and friends. 

A year ago, the U.S. had confirmed 1,000 coronavirus infections. Now, we’re approaching 30 million. We couldn't fathom losing 100,000, but we did. Today, more than 530,000 Americans have died from the virus. [As of March 2025, Wikipedia states that there are 1,219,038 confirmed deaths from Covid in the U.S.]

I don't think anyone will ever forget this time in our lives. 

We are retired and our lives didn't change as drastically as those who have jobs or have children in school.

Notes From My Journal:

January 20 - First case of COVID in U.S. (Washington state).
February 29 - First COVID death in U.S. 
March 11 - Costco was a zoo! No toilet paper or Kleenex. People are panic-buying because of COVID.
March 12 - Grocery store has empty shelves. Stock market dropped 7000 points since January. 
March 14 - Trying not to spend too much time online reading about COVID. This is such a surreal time. Schools are closed. March Madness and NBA cancelled. Libraries closed. Churches closed. Disneyland closed! Broadway went dark. Long lines at grocery stores. I cancelled all of our reservations for our camping trip. :(
March 16 - Lots of emails flying around about whether to cancel book club and Rae's going away brunch. Shay wants to come out this summer, but who knows if that's even possible.
March 18 - Rec Center officially closed.
March 19 - Day 1 COVID "Stay at Home." COVID testing tent set up at Samaritan clinic.
March 20 - IRS moves filing date to July 15th. CA statewide "stay at home" order. "Shelter in place" COVID deaths surpasses 10,000 globally. Our stocks our down $77K. Went shopping with Rod. Bought almost $350 in groceries. Should be stocked up for a month. 
March 22 - Socially distanced drinks on the deck with Molly & Dave. 
March 23 - Family game night with Rod and Mom (Quiddler). Rod has a cough... trying not to worry!
March 24 - Text from CJ - coworker has COVID. First case in Lincoln county.
March 30 - John Prine has COVID - critical condition.
April 7 - John Prine died.
April 8 - Depoe Bay looks like a ghost town. No cars parked anywhere!
April 11 - Feeling out of sorts. Anxious. Lonely. Missing my girlfriends. Want to go camping!
April 15 - Really miss having a normal routine. No yoga, no pickleball, no Mah Jong, no book club to fill the days. 
Wimbledon cancelled.
Boston Marathon cancelled. First time in its history.
May 19 - Trader Joe's and Costco. Masks required for entry. 
May 25 - Unrest in Minneapolis after George Floyd was killed by police officer kneeling on his neck for 9 minutes. 
May 27 - 100,000 deaths in the United States!
NYC Marathon cancelled. 
July 23 - Opening Day (baseball). No fans in the stadium, just cardboard cut-outs with photos!
Got my first haircut after an entire year - 6" cut off!

This is all I have in my notes. I may add more as my Facebook memories pop up, but that's it for now.

May we never had to endure such a terrible health scare again. Science matters!

October 28, 2024

Holly



Holly by Stephen King
Holly Gibney #3
Fiction/Thriller
2023
Finished on October 24, 2024
Rating: 4.5/5 (Excellent)

Publisher's Blurb:

Holly Gibney, one of Stephen King’s most compelling and ingeniously resourceful characters, returns in this thrilling novel to solve the gruesome truth behind multiple disappearances in a midwestern town.

“Sometimes the universe throws you a rope.” — BILL HODGES

Stephen King’s Holly marks the triumphant return of beloved King character Holly Gibney. Readers have witnessed Holly’s gradual transformation from a shy (but also brave and ethical) recluse in Mr. Mercedes to Bill Hodges’s partner in Finders Keepers to a full-fledged, smart, and occasionally tough private detective in The Outsider. In King’s new novel, Holly is on her own, and up against a pair of unimaginably depraved and brilliantly disguised adversaries.

When Penny Dahl calls the Finders Keepers detective agency hoping for help locating her missing daughter, Holly is reluctant to accept the case. Her partner, Pete, has Covid. Her (very complicated) mother has just died. And Holly is meant to be on leave. But something in Penny Dahl’s desperate voice makes it impossible for Holly to turn her down.

Mere blocks from where Bonnie Dahl disappeared live Professors Rodney and Emily Harris. They are the picture of bourgeois respectability: married octogenarians, devoted to each other, and semi-retired lifelong academics. But they are harboring an unholy secret in the basement of their well-kept, book-lined home, one that may be related to Bonnie’s disappearance. And it will prove nearly impossible to discover what they are up to: they are savvy, they are patient, and they are ruthless.

Holly must summon all her formidable talents to outthink and outmaneuver the shockingly twisted professors in this chilling new masterwork from Stephen King.

Fantastic! Another winner by King. Holly is less of a mystery (the reader is privy to all that is going on while Holly is trying to find out if there's a serial killer at large), and definitely not horror (at least not in the supernatural sense), so I'd categorize this one as a thriller. I couldn't put it down! Each night I would read a few chapters before falling asleep, only to wake up an hour later, eager to read more. I knocked off half a point due to the heavy-handed commentary about Covid. I don't mind revisiting the pandemic in my reading, and King doesn't shy away from opportunities to voice his opinion (which I share) about Trump and antivaxxers. However, it's a bit on the nose for over 400 pages. 

I enjoyed meeting Holly Gibney in The Outsider and If It Bleeds, and I'm looking forward to reading the Bill Hodges' trilogy (in which she first appears) that I somehow overlooked when they were first released starting back in 2014. I may even reread Holly once I've finished those three. 

I've said it more than once, but I'll say it again. Stephen King is a master storyteller. He is on my list of all-time favorite authors, and easily in the top ten. Highly recommend!

January 1, 2021

A Month in Summary - December 2020 (and Happy New Year!)

Little Whale Cove
Depoe Bay, Oregon
December 2020


What. A. Year.

Who knew that on January 1, 2020 we would be heading into such an agonizing year. 

The pandemic: Social distancing, masks, hoarding toilet paper and hand sanitizer, sheltering in place and quarantining, Zoom happy hour and distance learning, singing from balconies, grocery deliveries and take-out, streaming movies and TV series, baking bread, doomscrolling, but most sadly, more than 342,000 Americans dead.

George Floyd's death and the subsequent protests across the nation.

Wildfires burning across most of the western states.

Ruth Bader Ginsburg's death.

The presidential election (and the post-election drama from the White House).

Rod's bike accident and shoulder replacement surgery.

My mom's emergency hospitalization and surgery for a umbilical hernia.

Oh, and let's not forget the murder hornets. ;)

On the positive side, I am grateful for:

Safe travel (nearby) in our RV.

Celebrating our 32nd wedding anniversary.

Biden and Harris win!

A healthy household (surgeries aside!).

My Peloton and great workouts.

Weekly Mah Jong games (outdoors) with my "pod."

Game nights with my mom and Rod.

Curbside pickup at the library.

The L.A. Dodgers win the World Series.

Financial security.

Zoom visits with friends and family.


Discovering some great TV series.

Book club via Zoom.

Puzzles.

My overflowing shelves of unread books.

Audiobooks.

Take-out from favorite restaurants.

My blogmates.


Living in a semi-secluded area on the Oregon coast.

Walks in the forest and on the coastal path.

I am hopeful that 2021 will bring more joy than worry, more time with family and friends, zero trips to the Emergency Room, and more road trips with my husband.

Adios 2020. 

Now, on to my December summary!

Books Read (click on the title for my review):

Once Upon a Town by Bob Greene (3/5)

The Rural Life by Verlyn Klinkenborg (3/5)

American Dirt by Jeanine Cummins (5/5)

Isaac's Storm by Erik Larson (3/5)

Howards End is on the Landing by Susan Hill (2/5)

On Interstate 80, three or four hours into the long westward drive across Nebraska, with the sun hovering mercilessly in the midsummer sky on a cloudless and broiling July afternoon, there were moments when I thought there was no way I'd ever find what I had come here to seek:

The best America there ever was. Or at least whatever might be left of it. (Once Upon a Town)

Every year about now, I feel the need to keep a journal. (A Rural Life)

One of the very first bullets comes in through the open window above the toilet where Luca is standing. (American Dirt)

Throughout the night of Friday, September 7, 1900, Isaac Monroe Cline found himself waking to a persistent sense of something gone wrong. (Isaac's Storm)

It began like this. I went to the shelves on the landing to look for a book I knew was there. It was not. But plenty of others were and among them I noticed at least a dozen I realised I had never read. (Howards End is on the Landing)

Movies & TV Series:


The Undoing - Wow. Great series. The last episode was very suspenseful! Kidman, Grant and Sutherland are all excellent. 


The Crown - This season rather depressing, but Olivia Colman is still great to watch.


The Missing - A good series with lots of red herrings. Kept me guessing!


Baptiste - We enjoyed this one a lot.  Tcheky Karyo is marvelous!


Wonder Woman 1984 - A silly, loooong, superhero movie that missed its mark. 


The Midnight Sky - We didn't love this one. Somewhat predictable and on a few occasions utterly implausible, wrapped up with a manipulative ending... Caoilinn Springall (Iris) made it worthwhile. Probably should've read the book instead.


Away - Watched the first episode and probably won't watch any more.

Puzzlemania:



This was probably the most challenging puzzle we've done! I think we'll stick to 500-1000 piece puzzles from here on out.



Another challenging puzzle!



I love Charley Harper puzzles from Pomegranate Puzzles! The colors are great and this one was very easy due to the oversize pieces. We finished it in one day.


Spotted this cute little guy as we were driving through Philomath on our way home from a post-op appointment in Albany. You can read about DAX here. 


A beautiful homemade Christmas bouquet from a friend.



I wish you all a safe and healthy 2021!